The girl i like asked me out… I need HELP plz >.<!?
Posted on Apr 27, 2009 under off broadway shoes |I'm REALLY sorry this is so long but please bear with me >.<!
We're good friends (both seniors in high school); i know i like her in a deeper way, and i'm pretty sure she feels at least somewhat the same way. She called me up earlier and told me she got tickets that her boss couldn't use, so she wanted to know if i would go with her (don't need to tell you MY response ^_^). This is our first "singles" date, and i really don't know what to do i think V_V.
First off, i was already planning on asking her out at prom in like 2 - 3 weeks, so i don't REALLY wanna do it during this, but i want it to seem pretty much like a date. I'm picking her up, we're going to dinner, heading to theater, and i'm driving her home. Would it be too much to bring like a bouquet of roses when i pick her up? (she likes the romantic stuff like that, but i don't know if it's too soon).
Also, i don't know what would really be appropriate to wear. I need "theater" appropriate, but also something that is casual, like a date. I was thinking: Dress shoes, black dress pants, blue button-down (but it's like a designer one, w/ display along shoulders of back, and over right chest area). She said no tie, so don't need to worry bout that, but should i do gold dress pants with my tan suit jacket? Or any other recommendations?
Lastly, any tips on actual dating i guess, with just the two of us? I've been to broadway shows w/ family, and i've been on a double date with her, but not alone like this… kinda nervous lol. So yeah, any advise, do's and don'ts, etc.?
(On a Side Note: Does this situation really happen, when a girl gets tickets to a show because boss couldn't use them? or is that just their way of asking a guy out?)
THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR ALL YOUR HELP = ')
Sorry, i didn't mean ask her TOO prom, i meant we're GOING to prom together, and i plan on asking her out "officially" there, like during dance or at after party.
Some people have been noting that they wouldn't go that fancy for movies. This is NOT movies, this is "THEATRE" like a broadway show type of thing, where somewhat nice clothes is a MANDATORY. I just want it to be comfortable though for me and her, seem like it's still a date.
Also, her parents like me, i've met both, her dad wants to have me over for dinner sometime as well = ). I don't think i need to really meet them to have a good impression, we've done that i think.
I think that the key to your success is going to be your ability to be yourself. If you let the nerves and all the minute details such as roses, clothes, etc. consume you then you won't be able to just relax and have a good time with a girl you like. She obviously asked you to this over any of her girl friends or any of her other guy friends so that means that she really likes hanging out with you…the real you. Why fix something that ain't broken, right?
My advice would be to skip the roses and dress in the blue shirt/black pants combo. Keep things simple. Don't put any added pressure on yourself that you don't need. Don't worry about the future with this girl, live in the moment during the date and have fun. Be a gentleman, be yourself and you'll be solid.
I hope this helps and I hope you have fun with this girl.
April 27th, 2009 at 5:51 am
well first off you could just wear a nice pair of cakky pants( i dont know how to spell it) and a nice pollo shirt.
dont be nervous just stay calm when you get nervous you mess stuff up. Do bring her a single rose not a bouqet. dont complement her to much you can say she looks really good when you first see her.
and it could be either idk where she works so she might of bought them and she wanted to go on a date with you and you just werent asking
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April 27th, 2009 at 6:29 am
Lol! Yeah girls always use stuff like this to ask dudes out! Im a chick and Ive done it b4. Id go with the blue designer shirt and black pants with the dress shoes. About the roses. If she is into the romantix than yea ! go ahead. roses never hurt anyone..and A kiss wont either if ur willing to go that far with her this soon…anyhoo… a dont would be not to blab, i know ull be netvous but dont talk ur nervousness out…and a do…BE YOUR SELF!
Good luck!
Miles
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April 27th, 2009 at 6:59 am
wear wat u said and to be completely honest if she asked u out then she is definitely interested… just be yourself arounf her and have a sense of humor and you will be fine
wait til the next time you hang out with her to ask her to prom but do it in a cute way lol
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April 27th, 2009 at 7:19 am
TAKE HER TO PROM, LIKE DUUURRR.
just ask her do you have a person to go to prom with
and if she says no, then ASK HER,
another thing, DONT WEAR DRESS PANTS, ESPECIALLY NOT THE GOLD ONES !! not theatre kind of clothes. just wear a pair of jeans and like a polo shirt. save the gold for prom. and no suit for the movies either, OR DRESS SHOES. save that for prom also.
remmeber to pay for everything
i love it when guys pay for me.
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April 27th, 2009 at 7:44 am
flowers-just get her ONE rose
clothes- the 1st choice
dont do the yawn trick!!!!!!!!!
lol
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April 27th, 2009 at 8:06 am
Well a whole bouquet of roses would seem pretty damn desperate. Just get her a nice Corsage and that will be romantic. You really dint need to be dressed that fancy to go to the movies, the only thing i would be concerned about is how fancy is the dinner. Some nice dockers and a button down if its a semi casual place or what you recommended if its fancier. i was terrified on my first date with my current girlfriend that we would reach a lul in the conversation and i would say something stupid. Don't freak out when theres a Moment wheres theres nothing to talk about!!! Comfortable silences are a good thing!! Make sure before you sit down for the movie to put the armrest up (if there is one). Remember to read her body language when your contemplating going for the first kiss, trust me you will know if she wants it.
(by the way, its just her way of asking you out)
Good Luck!
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April 27th, 2009 at 8:47 am
okay, it's your first date so bring daisys or some other springy flower for her. to me, roses imply a really serious relationship. like i said. it's your first date so take it easy.
wear your first option, and ask her to the prom while you're there. but if you really, really, dont want to, ask her when you talk about the "date"
like:
"hey i had a really nice time with you last night."
"yeah, so did i" (or at least we HOPE she says that)
"it got me thinking…i really wanna go to Prom with you."
(insert her answer here) :p
i hope i helped a bit…just be self on that date, and don't be nervous
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April 27th, 2009 at 9:14 am
for ur clothing option all u pretty much need to wear is a nice clean pair of jeans *a dark wash looks great on anybody and if u do pick a dark wash i recommend black* i good looking top maybe a button down shirt will do (for the design i was going say a pen stripped one but not everybody looks goood in one of those) *no plain white t-shirt* and for shoe choice i was going to say some a nice really clean pair of white pair of good looking gym shoes (to point out u have good style) but like i said thats mainly up to u. and for the roses BRING THEM *i suggest only 1 though* im pretty sure shes gonna appreciate them *any girl would*
~~~u should just ask her once u drop her off at home~~~
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April 27th, 2009 at 9:51 am
Well girls come up with alot of stuff to ask a boy out. But, I believe get a cute casual shirt button up and some dark jeans and some nice shoes. Um wait for the the roses just treat her to whatever she wants if u can. You know if she tries to pay for something you pay for it. Just be yourself and don't talk about past relationships and you will be fine. If she likes you now you've been doing something right . Just be a sweetheart girls like that. I know I do. Um you know don't kiss her until ya'll are officially boyfriend and girlfriend. Just do you and go inside her house to speak to her parents they like that kind of stuff. Have fun and good luck.
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April 27th, 2009 at 10:31 am
I think that the key to your success is going to be your ability to be yourself. If you let the nerves and all the minute details such as roses, clothes, etc. consume you then you won't be able to just relax and have a good time with a girl you like. She obviously asked you to this over any of her girl friends or any of her other guy friends so that means that she really likes hanging out with you…the real you. Why fix something that ain't broken, right?
My advice would be to skip the roses and dress in the blue shirt/black pants combo. Keep things simple. Don't put any added pressure on yourself that you don't need. Don't worry about the future with this girl, live in the moment during the date and have fun. Be a gentleman, be yourself and you'll be solid.
I hope this helps and I hope you have fun with this girl.
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April 27th, 2009 at 10:38 am
dont- get roses; however you know her better then me so if you think she might like the gesture try a different flower, pretty and joyful opposed to roses which are passionate( and i personally dont happen to like then very much) make a bouquet that matches her personality! she`s sure to appreciate that. as for kissing her you have to see how that night goes, you`ll know if you should or not. have a great time
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